How Do You Say Goodbye To The One You Love

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Girls with no dad…

Im beginning to see it more clear now… Its a lot of fatherless women out here in this world… A lot of woman are lost in ever knowing what it means to have a dad… Broken childhood… They were robbed of it… So women have tended to look for wherever it seemed to present itself, someone to love… Bad choices, but you cant blame them… Most women just want to love somebody… And sadly after the multiple hurts in some cases it has become anybody.. Sometimes its the anybodies who take advantage of her…. Not man bashing here, just pointing out the non-loving ones who can care less of her love offerings… For even the non-lovers have a story to have led them into such a way of thought… To you fathersless women, I applaud and respect you… Thankyou for your strengthening display of your compassionate levels of unshelfishness… Expressing love in its uncondition… As I would tell my own daughters……… Sweeties, you gotta love yourself too… Big hug… I see the love in your tears… Now put on your big girl panties and love yourself enough to not put up with too much silly stuff, okay? I love my girls, man..

What is love?

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.  Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.  It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. We dudes don’t come preprogrammed comprehending this level of understanding… It has to be taught to us by you(women)…. And sometimes these classes are difficult for us to grasp…. Be patient.. Be kind… Preserve… And its confirmed… Only women will mostly take notice  to this post…. Teach us… Teach us men how to understand love the way you do… But just like school you cant force a young man in the lessons of love to grasp so easily what you already know… Love lessons are far more understood for women than men… Women don’t need instructions, we men do… And a lot of us men still need help… You all know that… Lets be real, half of y’all has had to help us get through highschool, college, and job applications…Its either patience or understanding on your part to know that he isn’t ready(compatible) for you…

Lets win this..

Oneself… The journey… At the bottom.. When we are truly at the bottom thats when we can be real with ourselves.. That is when we are our realest with GOD… So if your in that place…. That habit… That drink… That drug… That behavior… That smoke… When you are at your worst… At your bottom… As your reading this or thinking about it later… Remember this, usually the reasoning for these habits is because your searching for a way out of your pain… And at that point you will find the truth…. GOD awaits… For he exists in that place where no one can reach you… I have no title… I’m being real with you… I’m flawed… Maybe I’m considered a heathen or “backslider” and I say to that, “I never slide up”… I’m everyday people, I’m on my path best designed for me, on my destiny… I’m just sharing how life is to me… I wish not to offend anyone’s religion, ideas, titles, organizations, or culture… Most of us are seeking the same truth, just some can’t see it… Be well, be true to you, we all make mistakes too… It can be difficult sometimes to change the world around you… That’s why you should master changing the world inside you… We are oneself… A many selves of one…

Why marry, for what?

Marriage… Why? Who? Does anyone understand marriage? We now marry for the wrong reasons… I blame no one.. We marry never truly to understand what it exactly means to marry… Somewhere we lost the true meaning of what it actually means to be married as a whole.. Some of us are fine.. Some of us are taking life’s journey with our companion.. But so many us aren’t….The sacred union. What is marriage? We all as a people have strayed from what GOD intended the true purpose of marriage and that is the bond… What greater bond that two beings could share that rivals no other relationship on earth and heavens… In the realm of GODLY marriage, what it was intended for, could there even be room for infidelity? If a man whole completely heartily gives his mind body and soul to unite with a woman what could separate that? Evenly, as a woman if she gave all of herself to her husband, what could rival that?… In this combination of holy matrimony, not just a shared space, but shared mind, the astounded levels gained cannot be expressed in my limited words… A shared mind, oneness, there wouldn’t be confusion… Love has no rules when two are loving each other… People cheat for so many different reasons and circumstances… So, I will not throw stones… That is his/hers or those individual’s situation… (In division)(in dividual) (not one, but divided) (that is the problem) We live in a time where love is separate from marriage… And that is what I believe we consider to be failed marriages… In cases we marry for the wrong reasons, or just to early… I believe it takes a certain maturity to understand to make a decision that is more binding than any other form of union between to beings other than GOD… Aside from even ones own mother!!! … Marry someone to share the innermost you with… To become one… That is marriage… Anything else is just a ritualistic practice, an event, party, or piece of paper that has no true value to comparison of what GOD intended marriage for… Its simple, very simple… Return to that holy trinity of man, woman, and GOD before adam and eve ate the forbidden fruit and broke that sacred bond…… Return to GOD naked of the mind and naked of the mind to each other… That is marriage… To become one… I’m done…

What if you waited…

What if… What if you waited… Many people deal with these burdens daily… Using sex to cope for the hole in your soul that needs fulfilling… In sex, we have forgotten what happens and why we are so drawn to one another… Yes, we exchange pleasures, but deeper than that we exchange our souls.. Are souls intertwine… And that is the purpose of sex… To bond soulfully and also create new lives together….Both spiritual and for some of us natural… Sadly, some have come to the place of body worship without the proper motive, for which sex is not intended… We say it’s wrong to catch feelings… No, its wrong not too… Young girls who are new to love, who are curious to find what love really means… Don’t fall into thinking that to be accepted you must unveil your treasures and give away your flower… The risks are to steep to mend years upon years of a broken heart… Young fellas, wait, think about your future… Her future… The future of your unborn son… Your son will quite possibly grow up missing you to the extent to hating you… Young men, your son is a younger version of you… Young mothers with child, you will never have his heart for your own by giving him your body… His mind isn’t with you… For if it was, then ask yourself, would you have to try to keep him by giving him your body?…There is no condom for your heart… When we are in the midst of this passionate ceremony, we are defenseless… In this act of unification, of divinity, of placing your treasures into the soul of another, we gain a spiritually which is a closer understanding of why GOD gave us these rituals for us to recreate and fulfill our temples of need for one another… Togetherness… One love…

True love?

True love? How do we know of true love? How is it measured by definition? Shouldn’t it take two to agree for true love to be counted? Are there certain requirements to remain or become “Truly in Love”? Once in the truest form of love can it be broken? Can one fall out of “True Love”? If so, then how can true love be counted true? Can one be truly in love while the other isn’t?… Is it possible to be unevenly unified.. If only one is in “True Love” then is it still considered the expression “Truly in Love”… Lastly, does true love exist in the world of today? There are different definitions for different people based on their idea of what true love means to them… I am “Truly in Love?” Are you? In my short time here on earth I have come to this way of best describing knowing I’m in love, truly… I desire no other woman to comfort my body… She is the key meaning of what I desire to accompany me in this lifetime… I adore all the makeups of her personality… She occupies my daily thoughts when I’m not with her… At night she comforts my soul as I pull her closer in my arms.. For she is my darling… Even with my eyes closed she is beautiful… In a summer day, while walk in park, her summers dress puts my heart to the test, never wanting to blink my eyes, she is my prize… She is the essence in human form of what I can physically love in such a way that isn’t defiled by GOD… This kind of passionate love is true because she is the one treasure bestowed to me… Isn’t this why she was created?.. But all these expressions are void in my mind if she doesn’t love me more than the words I have chosen to describe in loving her… Without her what other is there to love in such a way? We come in twos… I strongly say this because she is more gifted in her understanding in what it is to love…  Why, because she teaches me how to love each and everyday… She is my teacher.. My helpmate… Placed in my life to nourish me spiritually, physically, and able to absorb all of my passion, all so gracefully providing a tender way of seeing life through her firery eyes… Ever so delicately… Now please consider, if she doesn’t feel the same way I do, because it takes two, then I’m afraid our love isn’t true… …It can still be love, just not true…

Trying to quit…

Have I offended you? I wasn’t supposed too… Many words are expressed. Its tiring to keep them suppressed.. Memories cloud my mind so.. For these attempts ease my mind… Let my rest on this breath… To expel these words are like to the ascension to a bird… Allow me to digress…… Does it pain you to know that I know where you go? That place where no one knows… That crack house late at night… Taking that secret flight… Moving and moaning quietly at night… These places you go, you should already know. I know.  I know where you go… Time after time, you want to stop, you want to quit… You even consider that thought, “I am a dimwit?” All that I’m asking, in that, in that place where you go… Take me with you… Take me with you… I am you… You are me… I am your aching heart, your deepest mind, and love in you that you don’t seem to notice… I love you… Yours truly… Self…..  GOD created yourself… Love yourself because yourself loves you…

We forget each other

It just hit me… You know what happens to a lot of us when we are in a relationship/union…. We slowly forget about each other… Allow me to paint with words… Imagine your world.. The world of your mind.. Forever busy… So many things that requires your attention… Job, stress, family, goals, dreams, etc… But we forget while in a relationship that we are blessed… It is a blessing for someone to choose to share your world… That person sleeps next to you, eats with you, and is most present in all of your memories… Your spouse… Imagine as times goes on and you lose focus on her patiently waiting in the corner of your mind… She awaits like a planted rose in your heart that hasn’t been watered… Do you remember? Can you remember how amazingly beautiful she was to you… You stopped your whole world to lose yourself and your desires in her… She was your focus … Your dream… Don’t lose focus of what truly is important… Water your rose… Water your rose… Reverse to you ladies… Don’t allow him to be distracted… Stand affirmed and strong as the center of his life… Your rightful place.. GOD designed us this way…If he didn’t then, we would cease to exist… No reproduction, naturally…To please your mate is a delightful display to honor GOD… Opinions of a opinion-ator…LOL.. No offense to any other type of relationship… It is your life.. Your world.. Coexist…

Your life partner

Its simple… The simple things that carry the most meaning… Thats is what you should always look for when you find your life partner… For every waking day, next to you is where she stays…. How she opens hers eyes then tells you, “good morning”… She gets herself ready for a peaceful morning… Now you hear the water flowing, she’s in the bathroom… Sleep… You awake to hearing bacon like, “Music to a well orchestrated symphony…..” The most important thing for you do is to you find her in the kitchen, to see whats she’s up too… To see her smile… Bliss…. (Stay in this moment) Bliss… As you adore the love that radiates around in everything you see… The source is her love for me…. Only LOVE knows these things… The simple things…